support for Cuda 12.1

Nobody has claimed this yet.

I named the example `simple_matmul.cu` and tried to compile like

```
nyck33@lenovo-gtx1650:/mnt/d/LLVM/NewPolygeistDir/nobu-polygeist-demos$ cgeist simple_matmul.cu -function=matmul -S
warning: CUDA version 12.1 is only partially supported
error: GPU arch sm_35 is supported by CUDA versions between 7.0 and 11.8 (inclusive), but installation at /usr/local/cuda-12.1 is 12.1; use '--cuda-path' to specify a different CUDA install, pass a different GPU arch with '--cuda-gpu-arch', or pass '--no-cuda-version-check'
:1:10: fatal error: '__clang_cuda_runtime_wrapper.h' file not found
1 | #include "__clang_cuda_runtime_wrapper.h"
| ^~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
nyck33@lenovo-gtx1650:/mnt/d/LLVM/NewPolygeistDir/nobu-polygeist-demos$ cgeist simple_matmul.cu -function=matmul -S --cuda-gpu-a
rch sm_75
warning: CUDA version 12.1 is only partially supported
:1:10: fatal error: '__clang_cuda_runtime_wrapper.h' file not found
1 | #include "__clang_cuda_runtime_wrapper.h"
| ^~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
nyck33@lenovo-gtx1650:/mnt/d/LLVM/NewPolygeistDir/nobu-polygeist-demos$
```

will Cuda 12.1 be supported soon? What are some workarounds?
My nvidia-smi and nvcc --version are:
```
nyck33@lenovo-gtx1650:/mnt/d/LLVM/NewPolygeistDir/build$ nvidia-smi
Wed Apr 3 23:18:44 2024
+---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
| NVIDIA-SMI 530.54 Driver Version: 531.97 CUDA Version: 12.1 |
|-----------------------------------------+----------------------+----------------------+
| GPU Name Persistence-M| Bus-Id Disp.A | Volatile Uncorr. ECC |
| Fan Temp Perf Pwr:Usage/Cap| Memory-Usage | GPU-Util Compute M. |
| | | MIG M. |
|=========================================+======================+======================|
| 0 NVIDIA GeForce GTX 1650 On | 00000000:01:00.0 Off | N/A |
| N/A 46C P0 17W / N/A| 0MiB / 4096MiB | 0% Default |
| | | N/A |
+-----------------------------------------+----------------------+----------------------+

+---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
| Processes:
|
| GPU GI CI PID Type Process name
GPU Memory |
| ID ID
Usage |
|=======================================================================================|
| No running processes found
|
+---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
nyck33@lenovo-gtx1650:/mnt/d/LLVM/NewPolygeistDir/build$ nvcc --version
nvcc: NVIDIA (R) Cuda compiler driver
Copyright (c) 2005-2023 NVIDIA Corporation
Built on Tue_Feb__7_19:32:13_PST_2023
Cuda compilation tools, release 12.1, V12.1.66
```

Reproduce the report with simple_matmul.cu using the cgeist commands shown, including CUDA 12.1 and the sm_75 override. Start by tracing the cgeist CUDA compilation entry point and its handling of the CUDA runtime wrapper and version checks. Done means the example compiles under CUDA 12.1 without the reported missing-header and compatibility errors.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.