Bound ports are not released immediately when container is stopped/deleted

### Description

This is a replacement for
* https://github.com/abiosoft/colima/issues/644

since the problem is in Lima.

When a container is stopped, its bound ports are not immediately released. It can take 2 seconds or more for that to happen. DDEV has had to add a sleep after deleting a container to wait for the port to be released.