feat: add file_writer_options for lance.write_dataset and LanceFragment.create

The file_writer_options can control the page size of lance file.
But now it can't be set in dataset and fragment API.

Add it into lance.write_dataset as:

dat = {
    "foo": [1, 3],
    "bar": ["one", "three"],
}
file_writer_options = {"data_cache_bytes": "4096", "max_page_bytes": "4096"}
ds = lance.write_dataset(dat, tmp_path, file_writer_options=file_writer_options)

Add it into LanceFragment.create as:

df = pd.DataFrame({"a": [1, 2, 3, 4, 5]})
file_writer_options = {"data_cache_bytes": "4096", "max_page_bytes": "4096"}
frag = LanceFragment.create(tmp_path, df, file_writer_options=file_writer_options)

Start at the Python definitions of lance.write_dataset and LanceFragment.create, then trace how their arguments reach the dataset and fragment writers. Add support for file_writer_options in both entry points and verify that the supplied options are honored when creating datasets and fragments.