chore(windows): if vs2019 and vs2022 are both installed, linking fails due to mismatching objs

Meson parts of the build find and use vs2022, but the build.sh versions use vs2019, so linking fails. We should either (a) always use latest vs found, or (b) always use a specific version (preferred). This is apparently possible to configure in meson, and is clearly possible in build.sh