nodejs dies if there is no memory to allocate for Mat

```
const cv = require('opencv4nodejs');
const emptyMat = new cv.Mat(100000, 100000, cv.CV_8UC3);
```
This will crash your nodejs. As far as I know in the last versions of opencv its possible to handle the error, this may make our applications more reliable I think.

Reproduce the failure with the provided Node.js snippet, then trace the Mat construction path in the native binding and inspect how allocation failures are handled. Done means an oversized Mat allocation reports an error without terminating the Node.js process; the payload names no specific files or tests.

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