How to exclude user directories when spawning a notebook?

### Bug description

Users are not able to start notebook on compute nodes. Stuck on "waiting to connect".

#### Actual behaviour

Users starts a notebook with `--disable_user_config=True`, job started but it is stuck on `waiting to connect`.
Deleting the directory `.jupyter` or `.local/lib/python*` solves the problem. It means that there is conflict with user's installed packages.

Is there a way to exclude those PATHS when starting a notebook?

I already checked https://github.com/jupyterhub/jupyterhub/issues/3804 and https://github.com/jupyterhub/jupyterhub/pull/4713 but using `disable_user_config` does not work.

### Your personal set up

- OS:

- Version(s):
Jupyterhub 4.1.5
Jupyterlab 4.2.2
batchspawner 1.3.0