Relaxing the requirement to throw an exception if a message is sent to a deleted temp destination

This was raised by Hiram Chirino:

> As an implementor of the JMS 1.1 spec one of the things that bother me about that version of the spec is the need to throw an exception when a client attempts to send a message to a temporary destination which has been deleted.

This isn't explicitly required in the JMS spec, but it appears to be required by the TCK tests. Hiram added:

> If I recall correctly, I first encountered the requirement was when I was testing Geronimo against the JMS TCK. The TCK has a test case which checked the requirement I described. I guess the TCK implementors justify the test assertion due to the API documentation on send method that states throws 'InvalidDestinationException - if a client uses this method with a QueueSender with an invalid queue.'

Hiram gave the following as his justification:

> You either have do an RPC against the server for each send to verify the temp destination is still around (which is slow since your working with non-persistent messages anyways) or the client has to monitor all temp destinations on the server which increases complexity of the client and the amount of memory it uses.
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> It also provides very little value to the end user application since NOT getting an exception does not guarantee the message will get processed. You could have a scenario where the producer sends a message to a temp destination and then the temp destination gets deleted which means the sent message gets dropped.
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> Hopefully the next version of the spec will be changed so that sending to a deleted temp destination does not throw a JMSException but instead the message gets dropped by the server.
#### Affected Versions
[1.1]

Start by reviewing the JMS 1.1 send-method API documentation and the TCK test case described in the issue. Resolve whether sending to a deleted temporary destination should raise an exception or drop the message, then document the agreed behavior and identify the affected implementation and tests.

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