Add methods to get a Destination.

Currently, the JMS API has no clear way of looking up a Queue or Topic. It's typically assumed to use JNDI, however when you're in Java SE there is no single entry point that allows one to look up a Queue or Topic.

Typically, permanent Queues/Topics are created via configuration (XML files, metadata, etc). As a result, I think we should add methods to ConnectionFactory/JMSContext/Connection that allows a developer to get a destination.
#### Affected Versions
[2.0]

Start by reviewing the JMS API's ConnectionFactory, JMSContext, and Connection interfaces and the issue's Java SE and JNDI use cases. Determine the intended destination-lookup methods and their behavior for queues and topics; the work is done when the API proposal is agreed and the affected interfaces and documentation reflect it.

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