Build-only dependencies are listed as required runtime dependencies

### Checklist

- [X] I have searched for [similar issues](https://github.com/isl-org/Open3D/issues).
- [X] For Python issues, I have tested with the [latest development wheel](http://www.open3d.org/docs/latest/getting_started.html#development-version-pip).
- [X] I have checked the [release documentation](http://www.open3d.org/docs/release/) and the [latest documentation](http://www.open3d.org/docs/latest/) (for `master` branch).

### Describe the issue

I am trying to add Open3D to a production application. In this application we are trying to minimize the resulting Docker image size and number of transitive dependencies. Open3D currently seems to publish several build dependencies as runtime dependencies.

### Steps to reproduce the bug

```python
For example, on macOS / Python 3.9:

When I create manual virtual environment and run:

(venv) $ pip install open3d==0.14.1
```

A small number of packages are installed:

```
Package Version
--------------- -------
addict 2.4.0
cycler 0.11.0
fonttools 4.33.3
joblib 1.1.0
kiwisolver 1.4.2
matplotlib 3.5.2
numpy 1.22.4
open3d 0.14.1
packaging 21.3
pandas 1.4.2
Pillow 9.1.1
pip 21.3.1
pyparsing 3.0.9
python-dateutil 2.8.2
pytz 2022.1
PyYAML 6.0
scikit-learn 1.1.1
scipy 1.8.1
setuptools 60.5.0
six 1.16.0
threadpoolctl 3.1.0
tqdm 4.64.0
wheel 0.37.1
```

This matches what is expected from

- https://github.com/isl-org/Open3D/blob/25da5cc93a263745ebb8aeb300d81da88fb3bb53/python/requirements.txt#L1

And

- https://github.com/isl-org/Open3D-ML/blob/master/requirements.txt

But the downloading a Windows wheel and inspecting `METADATA`:

```
Requires-Python: >=3.6
Description-Content-Type: text/x-rst
Requires-Dist: setuptools (>=40.8.0)
Requires-Dist: wheel (>=0.36.0)
Requires-Dist: numpy (>=1.18.0)
Requires-Dist: ipywidgets (>=7.6.0)
Requires-Dist: pygments (>=2.7.4)
Requires-Dist: jupyter-packaging (~=0.10)
Requires-Dist: jupyterlab (==3.*,>=3.0.0)
```

There appear to be build time requirements, as listed in

https://github.com/isl-org/Open3D/blob/25da5cc93a263745ebb8aeb300d81da88fb3bb53/python/pyproject.toml#L2

These seem to be leaked out into the packages overall dependencies and cause tools such as Poetry to lock these build dependencies and install them even outside Windows onto mac and Linux.

See: https://pypi.org/pypi/open3d/json

```
"requires_dist":["setuptools (>=40.8.0)","wheel (>=0.36.0)","numpy (>=1.18.0)","ipywidgets (>=7.6.0)","pygments (>=2.7.4)","jupyter-packaging (~=0.10)","jupyterlab (==3.*,>=3.0.0)","addict","pillow (>=8.2.0)","matplotlib (>=3)","numpy (>1.15)","pandas (>=1.0)","pyyaml (>=5.4.1)","scikit-learn (>=0.21)","tqdm","pyquaternion"]
```

- https://github.com/python-poetry/poetry/issues/5689

### Expected Behavior

`jupyterlab` and other build time dependencies would not be published as runtime dependencies. If they are in fact needed for Windows operation, that they be marked as Windows-only so tools such as Poetry will not install the outside of Windows.

### Open3D, Python and System information

```markdown
- Operating system: macOS 11.6
- Python version: Python 3.8 / output from `import sys; print(sys.version)`
- Open3D version: output from python: `3.9.13`
- System architecture: x86
- Is this a remote workstation?: no
- How did you install Open3D?: pip
- Compiler version (if built from source): N/A
```