Handle Project Reloads when adding files to wildcard patterns

We should add logic to handle Wildcarded files in fsproj files such as:

```xml

```

In Adaptive, the [additional dependencies](https://github.com/fsharp/FsAutoComplete/blob/main/src/FsAutoComplete/LspServers/AdaptiveFSharpLspServer.fs#L763) is where it makes sense to watch for these files. We probably only want to do it upon Add or Delete but not modify.

### Current workarounds:

- Option 1: Reload Window (not ideal)
- Option 2:
- Save the fsproj file to mark it as updated
- go to a file that it does know about (something that isn't wildcarded for example) and get it typechecked to force it to reload that project