Add ability to configure build and sim arguments at connection time

### Motivation

`Cosim` modules currently have the ability to specify things like simulation and compile time arguments. Sometimes, it might be useful to provide compile, simulation, or other arguments at a "top" level when the cosimulation is launched rather than within a specific module.

### Desired solution

Arguments at the connection time for the wrap config with instructions for how to compile, simulate, etc. in addition to the arguments available in `Cosim` already.

### Alternatives considered

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### Additional details

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Start with the existing Cosim module argument handling and the wrap config connection-time entry point. Trace how compile, simulation, and other arguments are currently provided, then define the connection-level behavior and verify that arguments can be supplied at launch in addition to module-level settings.

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