The default for `connect` and order of arguments are different on `addPortMap` for `BridgeModule` and `InterfaceReference`

### Describe the bug

It's confusing to have a different default and positional argument order between two effectively identical functions on different classes (one calls the other). These should be made consistent.

```
// in BridgeModule
PortMap addPortMap(PortReference port, InterfacePortReference intfPort,
{bool connect = false}) =>

// in InterfaceReference
PortMap addPortMap(InterfacePortReference interfacePort, PortReference port,
{bool connect = true}) {
```

This would be a *breaking change*, unfortunately

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### Expected behavior

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### Actual behavior

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### Additional: Dart SDK info

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