When setting last day of the month then setting month => first day of next month

**Describe the bug**
`dayjs().date(31).month(4)`

i'm just running this in the chrome console

**Expected behavior**
I'm expecting having the 31th of May.

**Workaround**
If i do this `dayjs().month(4).date(31)` it works fine

**Information**
- Day.js Version 1.11.6
- OS: MACos ventura 13.2.1
- Browser Chrome 111 arm
- Time zone: GMT+2

Start by reproducing `dayjs().date(31).month(4)` and compare it with the reported workaround, `dayjs().month(4).date(31)`. Trace the `date()` and `month()` entry points and their existing tests; done means setting the month after the day preserves the expected May 31 date without breaking other month-boundary cases.

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