Support cast_kwargs in cast_columns

### Feature request

expose `cast(**cast_kwargs)` to `cast_column()`

https://github.com/huggingface/datasets/blob/0feb65dd8733191dd2d1e74215b422fc5939a56a/src/datasets/arrow_dataset.py#L2205

### Motivation

`cast_column()` wraps `cast()` function without exposing any `cast()` args. For large multi-modal datasets, e.g.

```py
# a dataset with list[{"bytes"}: b'', ...], much more than one image
load_dataset("MLLM-CL/VTCBench").cast_column("images", List(Image(decode=False)))
```

This would fail due to #6206, #7167, where the default value `1000` for batch size in `cast()` is too large and causes `pyarrow.lib.ArrowInvalid: offset overflow while concatenating arrays`.

https://github.com/huggingface/datasets/blob/0feb65dd8733191dd2d1e74215b422fc5939a56a/src/datasets/arrow_dataset.py#L2164-L2205

### Your contribution

#7910