Fix file/directory deletion on Windows

Currently, on Windows, some attempts to delete a dataset file/directory will fail with the `PerimissionError`.

Examples:
- download a dataset, then force redownload it in the same session while keeping a reference to the downloaded dataset
```python
from datasets import load_dataset
dset = load_dataset("sst", split="train")
dset = load_dataset("sst", split="train", download_mode="force_redownload")
```
- try to clean up the cache files while keeping a reference to those files (via the mapped dataset):
```python
from datasets import load_dataset
dset = load_dataset("sst", split="train")
dset_mapped = dset.map(lambda _: {"dummy_col": 1})
dset.cleanup_cache_files()
```
We should fix those.