[TRACKING ISSUE] Disallow different types of generic records in GenericRecordBuilder.setGenericRecord API-1773

The tracking issue for the Java side PR.

See https://github.com/hazelcast/hazelcast/pull/23522 for details.

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Right now, GenericRecordBuilder.setGenericRecord does not throw if the value is not of the same type of generic record. (compact for compact, portable for portable)

We instead throw a cast exception while trying to do toData. We should do it during the setter.

Breaking changes (list specific methods/types/messages):
* If some users were misusing the API, they may be affected

Checklist:
- [x] Labels (`Team:`, `Type:`, `Source:`, `Module:`) and Milestone set
- [x] Label `Add to Release Notes` or `Not Release Notes content` set
- [x] Request reviewers if possible
- [x] Send backports/forwardports if fix needs to be applied to past/future releases
- [x] New public APIs have `@Nonnull/@Nullable` annotations
- [x] New public APIs have `@since` tags in Javadoc

I don't think we need backports for this change.