ListenersOnReconnectTest connecting to self! error [API-1380]

```
1) ListenersOnReconnectTest
shutdown two members [1,2], listener still receives map.put event [smart=false]:
Error: Class name: java.lang.RuntimeException, Message: Connecting to self! [localhost]:36427
at new UndefinedErrorCodeError (src/core/HazelcastError.ts:437:9)
at ClientErrorFactory.createError (src/protocol/ErrorFactory.ts:226:21)
at ClientErrorFactory.createErrorFromClientMessage (src/protocol/ErrorFactory.ts:208:21)
at InvocationService.processResponse (src/invocation/InvocationService.ts:528:51)
at processResponseCallback (src/network/ConnectionManager.ts:293:36)
at Socket. (src/network/Connection.ts:478:21)
at Socket.emit (node:events:527:28)
at Socket.emit (node:domain:475:12)
at addChunk (node:internal/streams/readable:324:12)
at readableAddChunk (node:internal/streams/readable:297:9)
```

https://github.com/hazelcast/hazelcast-nodejs-client/runs/6204354778?check_suite_focus=true