Add support for `limit`, `offset`, and `order_by` to both update and delete mutations

### Is your proposal related to a problem?

I expect update and delete mutation work with the same arguments as select queries. But instead, only `where` parameter is supported. And `limit`, `offset`, and `order_by` are not supported. That makes me do separate select query and separate mutation.

### Describe the solution you'd like

Add support for `limit`, `offset`, and `order_by` to both update and delete mutations.

### Describe alternatives you've considered

None

Start by locating the update and delete mutation entry points and comparing their supported arguments with select queries. Check the existing mutation and query tests, then verify that limit, offset, and order_by work for both mutation types alongside where, with coverage for the resulting affected records.

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