Building two components of the same package concurrently causes one to fail

**Describe the bug**

When running two cabal processes that build the same project (possibly because they share a third project as a dependency) one will fail. This can occur quite easily when trying to run an entire product stack with tools like `overmind`. I suppose it will not be deterministic but this is the error I saw:

```
: error:
/home/user/company/project/dist-newstyle/build/x86_64-linux/ghc-9.4.4/project/build/Project/Module.o.tmp: renameFile:renamePath:rename: does not exist (No such file or directory)
```

**To Reproduce**

In different terminals run in the same directory:

```
$ cabal build -j all
```

**Expected behavior**

One of the two processes should wait and give a warning about another process building the same project

**System information**
- Operating system: Ubuntu
- `cabal`, `ghc` versions: `cabal-install version 3.10.1.0`, `The Glorious Glasgow Haskell Compilation System, version 9.4.4`

**Possible solution**

Per 'build unit', first claim a lock by writing the PID of the current process to a lockfile. The lock is free if the lock file is missing or the PID inside the lockfile does not refer to an existing process.