Cabal 3.10.1.0 ignoring `-fdiagnostics-color` option

**Describe the bug**
There is no way to disable GHC diagnostic coloring.

**To Reproduce**
Steps to reproduce the behavior:
issue `cabal build --ghc-options=-fdiagnostics-color=never` and watch colored errors emerge.

**Expected behavior**
With above args, uncolored error output.

**System information**
- Operating system
OS X 13.4 (ARM)
- `cabal`, `ghc` versions
cabal 3.10.1.0, ghc 9.6.2

**Additional context**
If you run `cabal -v --ghc-options=-fdiagnostics-color=never` and retrieve the GHC command, you can (a) see that the option is NOT being added and (b) if you issue the GHC command yourself and add `-fdiagnostics-color=never`, the colorization goes away.

Start by reproducing the issue with cabal build --ghc-options=-fdiagnostics-color=never, then inspect the verbose GHC command generation and option-forwarding path. Done means the option appears in the generated GHC command and the resulting diagnostic output is uncolored.

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