The `--repl-no-load` option is not recognized for build-type: Custom

**Describe the bug**
I'm not able to start `cabal repl` with the `--repl-no-load` in Haskell packages specified to have `build-type: Custom`.

**To Reproduce**
Steps to reproduce the behavior:

I've prepared a GitHub repository to demonstrate this issue. So check out: https://github.com/enobayram/cabal-repl-no-load-test

Then in that folder, the following fails, even though a simple `cabal v2-repl` works.

```
$ cabal v2-repl --repl-no-load -v
...
creating
/***/cabal-no-load-test/dist-newstyle/build/x86_64-linux/ghc-8.10.7/cabal-no-load-test-0.1.0.0/setup
/***/.ghcup/bin/ghc --make -fbuilding-cabal-package -odir /***/cabal-no-load-test/dist-newstyle/build/x86_64-linux/ghc-8.10.7/cabal-no-load-test-0.1.0.0/setup -hidir /***/cabal-no-load-test/dist-newstyle/build/x86_64-linux/ghc-8.10.7/cabal-no-load-test-0.1.0.0/setup -i -i/***/cabal-no-load-test/. -optP-include -optP/***/cabal-no-load-test/dist-newstyle/build/x86_64-linux/ghc-8.10.7/cabal-no-load-test-0.1.0.0/setup/setup_macros.h -hide-all-packages -no-user-package-db -package-db /***/store/ghc-8.10.7/package.db -package-db /***/cabal-no-load-test/dist-newstyle/packagedb/ghc-8.10.7 -package-id Cabal-3.2.1.0 -package-id base-4.14.3.0 /***/cabal-no-load-test/dist-newstyle/build/x86_64-linux/ghc-8.10.7/cabal-no-load-test-0.1.0.0/setup/setup.hs -o /***/cabal-no-load-test/dist-newstyle/build/x86_64-linux/ghc-8.10.7/cabal-no-load-test-0.1.0.0/setup/setup -threaded
/***/cabal-no-load-test/dist-newstyle/build/x86_64-linux/ghc-8.10.7/cabal-no-load-test-0.1.0.0/setup/setup
repl --verbose=2
--builddir=/***/cabal-no-load-test/dist-newstyle/build/x86_64-linux/ghc-8.10.7/cabal-no-load-test-0.1.0.0
--repl-no-load exe:cabal-no-load-test
unrecognized 'repl' option `--repl-no-load'
CallStack (from HasCallStack):
withMetadata, called at src/Distribution/Simple/Utils.hs:370:14 in Cabal-3.8.1.0-inplace:Distribution.Simple.Utils
Error: cabal: repl failed for cabal-no-load-test-0.1.0.0-inplace.
```

**Expected behavior**
`cabal v2-repl --repl-no-load` should drop me down to a GHCi session that has no modules loaded.

**System information**
- Ubuntu 22.04
- `cabal --version`: 3.8.1.0
- `ghc --version`: 8.10.7

**Additional context**
Note that `cabal v2-repl --repl-no-load` works, if you change `build-type` to `Simple` in [cabal-no-load-test.cabal](https://github.com/enobayram/cabal-repl-no-load-test/blob/ed5550029f22d5e06be21ababb5063a3b73901f1/cabal-no-load-test.cabal#L42)

Start with the linked reproduction and cabal-no-load-test.cabal, comparing the working Simple build type with Custom. Trace the cabal v2-repl --repl-no-load entry point through the Custom setup path. Done means the option is accepted for Custom packages and opens GHCi with no modules loaded, while preserving the existing Simple behavior.

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