ER: new member are trying to leave project before becoming good maintainer

### Dependency
- [ ] When the contributing file is updated and the wiki is migrated.

### Emergent Requirement - Problem
We need videos to explain what new members can expect

### Issue you discovered this emergent requirement in
- #4442

### Date discovered
2023-04-09

### Did you have to do something temporarily
- [x] YES - we have to make all the issues ourselves instead of getting other people to help make them.
- [ ] NO

### Who was involved
@ExperimentsInHonesty @jdingeman

### What happens if this is not addressed
people keep asking if they can leave and not really becoming maintainers

### Resources

### Recommended Action Items
- [ ] Make a new issue
- [ ] Discuss with team
- [ ] Let a Team Lead know

### Potential solutions [draft]