[Stripe Card] Add ability to hide declined stripe authorization

We have the ability to hide declined stripe authorizations from the end users. This means it does not appear in:
- Stripe Card ledger (show page)
- Public activity
- Notifications (e.g. email/sms)

This is useful in the following case: A stripe card has been cancelled for a long time (let's say a year), but scammers keep attempting charges on it

It should be built to allow for hiding declined transactions even on active cards. Some banks will reject obviously fraudulent transactions and hide them from you — I don't really agree with that, but we should build it in a way that could support that behavior if we wanted.

Use the Stripe Card ledger show page, public activity, and notification paths as entry points; first map where declined authorizations become visible. Done means declined transactions can be hidden from all three surfaces, including when the card is active, without hiding allowed transactions.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.