Potential memory leak related to grpc health probe

Hey folks I have a very simple grpc health endpoint (https://github.com/grpc-ecosystem/grpc-health-probe) and can observe a memory leak coinciding with the regular health check probes using up roughly half a GB every twelve hours in my specific deployment setting.

In fact I could reproduce it with something along the lines of

```
while true; do sleep 0.001; grpc_health_probe -addr localhost:50051; done
```

where I can reproduce the memory leak very quickly.

The solution I have found was to tune the grpc options and to add

```typescript
'grpc.max_connection_idle_ms': 10000, // Close idle connections after 10s
'grpc.max_connection_age_ms': 30000, // Force connection close after 30s
```

I wanted to raise this here since I have seen multiple folks run into memory leaks and it was hard to find a workaround.

See
- https://github.com/grpc/grpc-node/issues/2068
- https://github.com/grpc-ecosystem/grpc-health-probe/issues/34

Env: Linux, Node v22, @grpc/grpc-js@1.13.0

I believe a memory leak here is unfortunate even if it turns out it's the client disconnecting in wrong ways. Hope this helps.