grpc-tools package does not work with M3 Pro Mac

### Problem description

When I install grpc-tools and try to run code generation (i.e. `node node_modules/.bin/grpc_tools_node_protoc [...]`), I get an error

```
node_modules/.bin/grpc_tools_node_protoc [...]
node:internal/child_process:414
throw errnoException(err, 'spawn');
^

Error: spawn Unknown system error -86
at ChildProcess.spawn (node:internal/child_process:414:11)
at spawn (node:child_process:761:9)
at execFile (node:child_process:351:17)
at Object. ([..]/node_modules/grpc-tools/bin/protoc.js:39:21)
at Module._compile (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1256:14)
at Module._extensions..js (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1310:10)
at Module.load (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1119:32)
at Module._load (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:960:12)
at Function.executeUserEntryPoint [as runMain] (node:internal/modules/run_main:86:12)
at node:internal/main/run_main_module:23:47 {
errno: -86,
code: 'Unknown system error -86',
syscall: 'spawn'
}

Node.js v18.18.2
```

I then tried to run the command that the protoc.js file generates directly

node_modules/grpc-tools/bin/protoc --plugin=protoc-gen-grpc=node_modules/grpc-tools/bin/grpc_node_plugin [...]

But that gives me a different error

zsh: bad CPU type in executable: node_modules/grpc-tools/bin/protoc

### Reproduction steps

See above.

- install `grpc-tools`
- run `node_modules/grpc-tools/bin/protoc --version`
- (you get the same error when running `node_modules/grpc-tools/bin/grpc_node_plugin --version`)

### Environment

- OS name, version and architecture: MacOS 14.2.1 arm64 (`uname -a` prints `Darwin [device id] 23.2.0 Darwin Kernel Version 23.2.0: Wed Nov 15 21:54:51 PST 2023; root:xnu-10002.61.3~2/RELEASE_ARM64_T6030 arm64`)
- Node version 18.18.2 (also tried 18.19.0)
- Node installation method volta
- Package name and version `grpc-tools@1.12.4`

### Additional context

I don't think this library is responsible for building the binary that is not working for me, but I also don't know where else to report this error to.