windows woes

### Problem description

I have 2 use-cases:

- need to connect to a named pipe (from another project) as a grpc client
- need to start a server as a uds

Are these 2 use-cases even possible currently? The link below seems to indicate it should but maybe not, or maybe I'm just doing something wrong in my configuration/setup?

When connecting to a named pipe it appears to detect the file appropriately etc and even send data but seemingly the named pipe is just ignoring the data.

```
node .\dev\csi-proxy.js
grpc implementation: @grpc/grpc-js
C:\Users\Administrator\Downloads\democratic-csi\csi_proxy_proto
csi-proxy request Filesystem/PathExists - data: {"path":"C:\\csi"}
NET 3448: createConnection [
{ path: '//./pipe/csi-proxy-filesystem-v1' },
null,
[Symbol(normalizedArgs)]: true
]
NET 3448: pipe true //./pipe/csi-proxy-filesystem-v1
HTTP2 3448: Http2Session client: created
(node:3448) Warning: Setting the NODE_DEBUG environment variable to 'http2' can expose sensitive data (such as passwords, tokens and authentication headers) in the resulting log.
(Use `node --trace-warnings ...` to show where the warning was created)
NET 3448: afterConnect
HTTP2 3448: Http2Session client: setting up session handle
Http2Session client (38) session created
Http2Session client (38) i/o stream consumed
HTTP2 3448: Http2Session client: sending settings
HTTP2 3448: Http2Session client: submitting settings
Http2Session client (38) scheduling write
STREAM 3448: read 0
STREAM 3448: need readable false
STREAM 3448: length less than watermark true
STREAM 3448: do read
NET 3448: _read
NET 3448: Socket._handle.readStart
HTTP2 3448: Http2Session client: initiating request
HTTP2 3448: Http2Session client: connected, initializing request
Http2Session client (38) request submitted
Http2Priority: parent: 0, weight: 16, exclusive: no
Http2Session client (38) submitting request
Http2Session client (38) request submitted, new stream id 1
Http2Session client (38) refreshing state
Http2Session client (38) refreshing state
STREAM 3448: resume
HttpStream 1 (42) [Http2Session client (38)] queuing 1 buffers to send
STREAM 3448: resume false
STREAM 3448: read 0
STREAM 3448: need readable false
STREAM 3448: length less than watermark true
STREAM 3448: do read
HttpStream 1 (42) [Http2Session client (38)] reading starting
STREAM 3448: flow true
STREAM 3448: read undefined
STREAM 3448: need readable true
STREAM 3448: length less than watermark true
STREAM 3448: reading, ended or constructing false
HTTP2 3448: Http2Stream 1 [Http2Session client]: shutting down writable on last write
HttpStream 1 (42) [Http2Session client (38)] writable side shutdown
Http2Session client (38) sending pending data
Http2Session client (38) nghttp2 has 24 bytes to send
Http2Session client (38) nghttp2 has 9 bytes to send
Http2Session client (38) nghttp2 has 119 bytes to send
Http2Session client (38) reading outbound data for stream 1
Http2Session client (38) stream 1 has pending outbound data
Http2Session client (38) sending 13 bytes for data frame on stream 1
Http2Session client (38) no more data for stream 1
Http2Session client (38) nghttp2 has 13 bytes to send directly
Http2Session client (38) wants read? 1
########### client stalls here
```

For creating a server as a uds I simply cannot get the server to bind:

```
# various path styles
unix://C:/temp/testpipe C:/temp/testpipe
STREAM 8080: resume false
STREAM 8080: read 0
STREAM 8080: need readable true
STREAM 8080: length less than watermark true
STREAM 8080: do read
STREAM 8080: flow true
STREAM 8080: read undefined
STREAM 8080: need readable true
STREAM 8080: length less than watermark true
STREAM 8080: reading or ended false
NET 8080: setupListenHandle temp/testpipe -1 -1 0 undefined
NET 8080: setupListenHandle: create a handle
NET 8080: bind to temp/testpipe
E No address added out of total 1 resolved
Error: No address added out of total 1 resolved
at bindResultPromise.then.errorString (C:\Users\Administrator\Downloads\democratic-csi\node_modules\@grpc\grpc-js\build\src\server.js:414:42)
at processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:96:5)

# various path styles
unix:///temp/testpipe /temp/testpipe
STREAM 5640: resume false
STREAM 5640: read 0
STREAM 5640: need readable true
STREAM 5640: length less than watermark true
STREAM 5640: do read
STREAM 5640: flow true
STREAM 5640: read undefined
STREAM 5640: need readable true
STREAM 5640: length less than watermark true
STREAM 5640: reading or ended false
NET 5640: setupListenHandle /temp/testpipe -1 -1 0 undefined
NET 5640: setupListenHandle: create a handle
NET 5640: bind to /temp/testpipe
E No address added out of total 1 resolved
Error: No address added out of total 1 resolved
at bindResultPromise.then.errorString (C:\Users\Administrator\Downloads\democratic-csi\node_modules\@grpc\grpc-js\build\src\server.js:414:42)
at processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:96:5)

# binds correctly, but I don't want named pipe, want a 'real' uds
unix:////./pipe/csi.sock //./pipe/csi.sock
STREAM 3480: resume false
STREAM 3480: read 0
STREAM 3480: need readable true
STREAM 3480: length less than watermark true
STREAM 3480: do read
STREAM 3480: flow true
STREAM 3480: read undefined
STREAM 3480: need readable true
STREAM 3480: length less than watermark true
STREAM 3480: reading or ended false
NET 3480: setupListenHandle //./pipe/csi.sock -1 -1 0 undefined
NET 3480: setupListenHandle: create a handle
NET 3480: bind to //./pipe/csi.sock
NET 3480: onconnection
```

### Reproduction steps

```
await new Promise((resolve, reject) => {
csiServer.bindAsync(
bindSocket,
grpc.ServerCredentials.createInsecure(),
(err) => {
if (err) {
reject(err);
return;
}
resolve();
}
);
});
```

### Environment
- OS name, version and architecture: `Windows 2019 1809`
- Node version [e.g. 8.10.0] `16.14.2`
- Node installation method [e.g. nvm] `manual download the exe installer`
- If applicable, compiler version [e.g. clang 3.8.0-2ubuntu4]
- Package name and version [e.g. gRPC@1.12.0] `"@grpc/grpc-js": "^1.5.7"`

### Additional context

https://github.com/grpc/grpc-node/pull/1244