Option to remove highlight and ripple effect when sorting is clicked on table header

## Expected Behavior

There is an option to remove this feature

## Current Behavior

Notice the datatable examples have gray highlight when you hover and ripple on `sortOnChange`. for example this sandbox: https://439oorwx3w.sse.codesandbox.io/#serverside-sorting

## Steps to Reproduce (for bugs)

1. Go to https://439oorwx3w.sse.codesandbox.io/#serverside-sorting
2. Play with the sorting

Start by reproducing the sorting interaction in the linked CodeSandbox, especially the serverside-sorting example, and inspect the table header behavior around sortOnChange. Done means providing an option that removes the gray hover highlight and ripple effect when sorting is clicked.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.