java.lang.OutOfMemoryError: Java heap space

Hello! I've been trying to get the LSP server working for me in vscode and spacemacs on and off for a bit, but I consistently run into the same OOM error when trying to work in a medium/large-ish repo

I've been following different guides and trying random things like
- implementing the performance improvements from here for emacs https://emacs-lsp.github.io/lsp-mode/page/performance/
- just trying to randomly pass in values to increase memory in jvm/gradle
- tweaking what garbage collector settings I can find, etc.

and was just wondering if there is any actual solution to this?

Some other information:

Any help is appreciated, thanks!

The report concerns the Kotlin language server used from VS Code and Spacemacs; begin by reproducing the Java heap-space failure in a medium/large repository and reviewing the supplied screenshots and attempted JVM, Gradle, and garbage-collector settings. Done means identifying a reproducible cause and a verified configuration or implementation fix that prevents the out-of-memory failure.

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