Unexpected behavior when retrying a CallActivity depending on the asyncComplete-flag

I am observing different results when retrying a CallActivity with multi-instance behavior, depending on the value of `completeAsync`.

This issue is similar to [this other topic](https://forum.flowable.org/t/inconsistent-context-of-the-job-execution-failure-event-with-and-without-asynccomplete-flag/9170/1). However, they are focusing on inconsistencies of the event context in case of a retry of a failed CallActivity. I decided to create a dedicated issue for this because they only mention my problem in a comment in their linked PR.

**Describe the bug**
If the CallActivity (with multi-instance behavior) is configured with `completeAsync=true` and retried after an error, only one subflow completes successfully, the other subflows get canceled

**Unit Test**:
[Here](https://github.com/rssap/flowable-engine/commit/fd72f3e842f5345c11b9e1624fccbca2011d68c8) is a commit with a complete test setup. For completeness of this post, I will outline the scenario here as well.

The parent process contains a CallActivity with multi-instance behavior, which starts 3 subflows. The CallActivity is either configured with `completeAsync=true` or `completeAsync=false`. Additionally, the CallActivity contains a VariableAggregation, which sole purpose is to provoke an error inside `ParallelMultiInstanceBehavior::leave`. The subflow only contains a start and end event.

The test with `completeAsync=true` fails (only one of the subflows completes successfully, the other two subflows get canceled), but the test with `completeAsync=false` passes.

```
@Test
@Deployment(resources = {
"org/flowable/engine/test/api/event/CallActivityTest.testCallActivityWithMultiInstanceBehaviorAndAsyncCompleteRetry.bpmn20.xml",
"org/flowable/engine/test/api/event/CallActivityTest.testCallActivityWithMultiInstanceBehaviorAndAsyncCompleteRetry_subflow.bpmn20.xml",
})
public void testCallActivityWithMultiInstanceBehaviorAndAsyncCompleteRetry() throws Exception {
testCallActivityWithMultiInstanceBehaviorRetryAfterFailure();
}

@Test
@Deployment(resources = {
"org/flowable/engine/test/api/event/CallActivityTest.testCallActivityWithMultiInstanceBehaviorAndSyncCompleteRetry.bpmn20.xml",
"org/flowable/engine/test/api/event/CallActivityTest.testCallActivityWithMultiInstanceBehaviorAndAsyncCompleteRetry_subflow.bpmn20.xml",
})
public void testCallActivityWithMultiInstanceBehaviorAndSyncCompleteRetry() throws Exception {
testCallActivityWithMultiInstanceBehaviorRetryAfterFailure();
}

public void testCallActivityWithMultiInstanceBehaviorRetryAfterFailure() throws Exception {
// Set number of retries to 1. In case of an error, the Job becomes a DeadLetterJob
processEngineConfiguration.getJobServiceConfiguration().setAsyncExecutorNumberOfRetries(1);

ProcessInstance processInstance = runtimeService.startProcessInstanceByKey("callActivity");

waitForJobExecutorToProcessAllJobsAndExecutableTimerJobs(20000L, 200L);

// Check erroneous state:
// The CallActivity is configured with VariableAggregation. However, it is intentionally referencing a non-existing variable. This will cause the CallActivity to fail.
assertThat(processEngine.getManagementService().createDeadLetterJobQuery().withException().count() == 3).isTrue();

// Set the missing process variable. After it is set, the process should complete successfully.
runtimeService.setVariable(processInstance.getId(), "nonExistingVariable", "target");

// Retry failed jobs
managementService.createDeadLetterJobQuery().list().forEach(job -> managementService.moveDeadLetterJobToExecutableJob(job.getId(), 3));
waitForJobExecutorToProcessAllJobsAndExecutableTimerJobs(20000L, 200L);

// Check that the parent process and its subflows completed
assertProcessEnded(processInstance.getId());
}
```

**Expected behavior**
I expect that my test passes when `completeAsync=true` and when `completeAsync=false`.

**Error Analysis**: I will now explain what goes wrong, if `completeAsync` is `true`:

When the exception is thrown due to the `VariableAggregation`, the execution of the current job is set to “inactive” (`JobRetryCmd::execute`). In this test, the execution of the current job refers to the “CallActivity” (in the attached image, these are the executions with the IDs `17`, `18`, and `19`). This differs from the test where `completeAsync` is `false` (there, the execution of the jobs refer to the EndEvent of the subflows (see IDs `23`, `29`, and `35` in the attached image)). After the retry (i.e. moving the DeadLetterJobs), all three CallActivity-executions are executed again. However, they remain “inactive” (i.e. the column `IS_ACTIVE` in the DB has the value `false`).

Every time an instance of the CallActivity finishes, the number of “completed” instances is compared to the total number of instances (this happens in `ParallelMultiInstanceBehavior::internalLeave`). If `nrOfCompletedInstances >= nrOfInstances || isCompletionConditionSatisfied` evaluates to `true` all remaining instances of the CallActivity get cancelled. However, here is the problem: when the first instance reaches this point (after the retry), the value of `nrOfCompletedInstances` is `4` (which is wrong) and the value of `nrOfInstances` is `3` (which is correct). Hence, the other two instances get cancelled.
The value of `nrOfCompletedInstances` is calculated by counting the number of CallActivity-executions where `IS_ACTIVE==false` (i.e. `17`, `18`, `19`) (+ 1 for the current instance).

**Note**:
I originally posted this on the [Flowable Forum](https://forum.flowable.org/t/unexpected-behavior-when-retrying-a-callactivity-depending-on-the-completeasync-flag/11950). Since I did not receive any feedback there, I guess that this is a better place to raise the problem.

**Additional context**