Stream reset in deal handling after 30 seconds

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### Boost component

- [X] boost daemon - storage providers
- [ ] boost client
- [ ] boost UI
- [ ] boost data-transfer
- [ ] boost index-provider
- [ ] Other

### Boost Version

```text
boostd v2.1.1
```

### Describe the Bug

When deals come in and they get handled, this can take > 30 seconds (see https://github.com/filecoin-project/boost/issues/1747)

When that happens, the underlaying stream connection gets killed by *something*.
Not the deal handler itself.

### Logging Information

```text
no
```

### Repo Steps

- Add a sleep of > 30 seconds in your deal filter handling.
- Make a deal
- See that you get a stream reset on the client
- See that once your provider succeeds, it shows an err: stream reset on closing it too ([here](https://github.com/filecoin-project/boost/blob/main/storagemarket/lp2pimpl/net.go#L298-L302))

Note that [upgrading the timeouts here](https://github.com/filecoin-project/boost/blob/main/storagemarket/lp2pimpl/net.go#L42-L53) does not help. (I've changed them to 60, and it still happens)