Iteration/scan/compaction OOM (35G+) after bulk load

RocksDB version: 6.8.1
write_buffer_size: 536870912
Universal compaction

Compaction Stats [default]
Level Files Size Score Read(GB) Rn(GB) Rnp1(GB) Write(GB) Wnew(GB) Moved(GB) W-Amp Rd(MB/s) Wr(MB/s) Comp(sec) CompMergeCPU(sec) Comp(cnt) Avg(sec) KeyIn KeyDrop
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L0 2798/0 111.35 GB 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.00 0.00 0 0.000 0 0
Sum 2798/0 111.35 GB 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.00 0.00 0 0.000 0 0
Int 0/0 0.00 KB 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.0 0.00 0.00 0 0.000 0 0

Compaction Stats [default]
Priority Files Size Score Read(GB) Rn(GB) Rnp1(GB) Write(GB) Wnew(GB) Moved(GB) W-Amp Rd(MB/s) Wr(MB/s) Comp(sec) CompMergeCPU(sec) Comp(cnt) Avg(sec) KeyIn KeyDrop
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Uptime(secs): 0.2 total, 0.0 interval
Flush(GB): cumulative 0.000, interval 0.000
AddFile(GB): cumulative 0.000, interval 0.000
AddFile(Total Files): cumulative 0, interval 0
AddFile(L0 Files): cumulative 0, interval 0
AddFile(Keys): cumulative 0, interval 0
Cumulative compaction: 0.00 GB write, 0.00 MB/s write, 0.00 GB read, 0.00 MB/s read, 0.0 seconds
Interval compaction: 0.00 GB write, 0.00 MB/s write, 0.00 GB read, 0.00 MB/s read, 0.0 seconds
Stalls(count): 0 level0_slowdown, 0 level0_slowdown_with_compaction, 0 level0_numfiles, 0 level0_numfiles_with_compaction, 0 stop for pending_compaction_bytes, 0 slowdown for pending_compaction_bytes, 0 memtable_compaction, 0 memtable_slowdown, interval 0 total count

** File Read Latency Histogram By Level [default] **
2020/06/17-16:05:02.392822 7f4141899700 [_impl/db_impl_compaction_flush.cc:1443] [default] Manual compaction starting
2020/06/17-16:05:02.393428 7f40a7fff700 (Original Log Time 2020/06/17-16:05:02.393355) [_impl/db_impl_compaction_flush.cc:2516] [default] Manual compaction from level--1 to level-1 from (begin) .. (end); will stop at (end)

this is one of the shards that we have, but it consumes way more memory to read/compact after bulk load than other shards (usually a bit less than 10G)