add logging.h in include/rocksdb

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### Expected behavior

Having a public api in "include/rocksdb" to use the Logger instance in merge operators would make it easier to log errors in them.

### Actual behavior

The merge operators in utilities are using util/logging.h but don't show how to use the Logger instance without the helpers provided in this file. It's actually unclear how to do it in fact.