Support invalidating linked records with any combination of arguments

## Context
I need to invalidate an edge (linked record, not a connection for now) for all combinations of filters upon the user creating a new instance of the item. For example, the user might create a new "TodoItem" and I want to update/invalidate the edge `todos: [TodoItem]`. For simple filters like `todos(completed: Boolean)`, it can be easy to just invalidate the affected arguments (ex. only `todos(completed: False)` and `todos(completed: Null)` need to be updated). As more filters are added this no longer becomes sustainable, especially when arbitrary user input is added (for example searchString).

## Proposed Fix
For fields with complex filters, manually updating the store via updaters/connections is not really feasible. I'd like an API within the updater where I could do `root.invalidLinkedRecord("todos")` to invalidate all combinations of arguments (perhaps with the ability to target a subset such as `completed: True` only).

There is a [line in the docs](https://relay.dev/docs/guided-tour/list-data/updating-connections/#connection-identity-with-filters) about this which says "An easier API alternative to manage multiple connections with multiple filter values is still pending", so it seems like this is a known gap, but at least having some tracking of the issue seems helpful still.

## Workarounds
Currently, the only workaround I see is to invalidate the parent object (ex. `root.invalidateRecord()`), which is dramatically overkill. I also started a discussion in the Discord around this, but it seemed like others ran into similar trouble and didn't have any workaround either.