LSP error in Relay GraphQL VSCode Extension

Updated to relay 14 and added the Relay GraphQL extension for VSCode. Upon trying to use features like Intellisense on hover, I see some errors logged to "Relay LSP Logs" output:

```
[DEBUG] request received Request { id: RequestId(I32(194)), method: "textDocument/hover", params: Object({"position": Object({"character": Number(11), "line": Number(20)}), "textDocument": Object({"uri": String("file:///Users/alex/dev/statsig/console/client/components/console/pulse/ScheduledRollupsDialog.tsx")})}) }
[DEBUG] lsp_method: textDocument/hover
[DEBUG] lsp_type: request
[DEBUG] Successfully parsed the definitions for a target GraphQL source
[DEBUG] position_span: 155:155
lsp_outcome: error
[DEBUG] lsp_error_message: get_schema: schema is missing (or not ready, yet) for the `default` project.
[DEBUG] 0ms lsp_message_processing_time
```

I assume my relay config must be set up correctly since relay-compiler works fine. My project is looked at ./console/, but I've added that root to the extension settings (until I did that I saw a different error about not finding a project).

The "Relay" output includes:

```
Searching for the relay-compiler starting at: /Users/alex/dev/statsig/console
Starting the Relay GraphQL extension...
Using relay binary: /Users/alex/dev/statsig/console/node_modules/relay-compiler/macos-arm64/relay
Starting the Relay Langauge Server with these options: {"options":{"cwd":"/Users/alex/dev/statsig/console"},"command":"/Users/alex/dev/statsig/console/node_modules/relay-compiler/macos-arm64/relay","args":["lsp","--output=debug"]}
Not starting the Relay Compiler. Please enable relay.autoStartCompiler in your settings if you want the compiler to start when you open your project.
```