Postgres proxy: Envoy Crash during pgbench test

*Title*: *Envoy Crash during pgbench test*

*Description*:
We have run pgbench to test postgres server proxied by Envoy. During the test Envoy crashed with the following log:

```bash
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.227][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:127] Caught Segmentation fault, suspect faulting address 0x0
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.227][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:111] Backtrace (use tools/stack_decode.py to get line numbers):
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.227][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:112] Envoy version: ca7ce529646b1f7c8c760e0e249e285cee4549ed/1.30.2/Modified/RELEASE/BoringSSL
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.227][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:114] Address mapping: 560479564000-56047cf63000 /usr/local/bin/envoy
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #0: [0x7fa621681520]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #1: [0x56047b34bfc4]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #2: [0x56047b34949a]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #3: [0x56047b348d88]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #4: [0x56047b345b6d]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #5: [0x56047b3304fa]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #6: [0x56047b32fd00]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #7: [0x56047b3443e7]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #8: [0x56047bb7aec5]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #9: [0x56047bb72663]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #10: [0x56047bb6f2f8]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #11: [0x56047bb4d2f1]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #12: [0x56047bb4e89d]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #13: [0x56047ca79480]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #14: [0x56047ca77dc1]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #15: [0x56047ad6332f]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #16: [0x56047cafac63]
[2024-09-19 14:22:51.228][42][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:121] #17: [0x7fa6216d3ac3]
ConnectionImpl 0x26537f7fe640, connecting_: 0, bind_error_: 0, state(): Open, read_buffer_limit_: 32768
socket_:
ListenSocketImpl 0x26537f0aeab0, transport_protocol_: raw_buffer
connection_info_provider_:
ConnectionInfoSetterImpl 0x26537f09e518, remote_address_: 100.126.0.213:54396, direct_remote_address_: 100.126.0.213:54396, local_address_: 100.126.5.153:50815, server_name_:
```
*Testing scope:*
Envoy configuration: https://gist.github.com/shiponcs/600fff61cddba5911bc3b9e538a4fc8c
pgbench command: `pgbench -h localhost -p 50815 -U postgres -c 50 -j 1 -T 00 example`

*Relevant*:
We have tried to find the reason; by running git bisect we discovered that, [this commit](https://github.com/envoyproxy/envoy/commit/61c9a47b8f68c4e66b584fbe86b046e082fec2d9) is causing the crash. If we get rid of the changes introduced in the commit, the issue gets resolved.