Return gRPC error status when max_stream_duration is reached for gRPC requests

*Title*: *Return gRPC error status when max_stream_duration is reached for gRPC requests*

*Description*:
When max_stream_duration is set in the listener_config or cluster_config, it would be helpful to return an gRPC error status when the duration is reached, so that the client can get a better signal and choose to handle it gracefully.