mlab crashes on close()

OS Info:
Operating System: Manjaro Linux
KDE Plasma Version: 5.26.2
KDE Frameworks Version: 5.99.0
Qt Version: 5.15.6
Kernel Version: 5.15.76-1-MANJARO (64-bit)
Graphics Platform: X11

Python version: 3.9.15
mayavi version: 4.8.1

To reproduce:

```
from mayavi import mlab
mlab.points3d(0,0,0)
```

Then closing the window crashes with:
```
File "/home/nate/.pyenv/versions/3.9.15/lib/python3.9/site-packages/pyface/ui/qt4/action/action_item.py", line 379, in _qt4_on_destroyed
if hasattr(self.control, "_tool_instance"):
RuntimeError: wrapped C/C++ object of type QAction has been deleted
```