Expand on the "Build Tooling" section

Now that we are using Vite by default there are a lot of best practices in the wider Vite community that we no longer communicating in our official documentation.

We should expand this documentation to include sections that can help people, and link to the relevant Vite documentation.

The following list is **not** complete, if anyone in the wider Ember community has suggestions for this list please feel free to comment and we'll add them to the list 👍

## Todo

- [ ] Performance tips - e.g. https
- [ ] node polyfill handling changes from webpack
- [ ] vite's `--force` and the locations of embroider-specific tmpdirs that may be relevant to debugging build issues