[Suggestion] Deprecate `npmOptions` and `buildManagerOptions` options in favor of a single `packageManagerInstallOptions` option

`packageManagerInstallOptions` is more in line with the new `packageManager` option.

`packageManagerInstallOptions` type:

```ts
packageManagerInstallOptions: string[] | (defaultOptions: string[], scenario: Scenario) => string[];
```

When the user provides `string[]`, we don't include the default options like we do now. If the user wants to make sure the default options are included as well, they must provide a function and spread in the default options manually.