Insensitive symbolic icons in headerbars don't have a backdrop style

Similar to #97. It looks like we're missing a backdrop style for symbolic icons in headerbars in both the light and dark variants. Consequently, insensitive buttons get darker/more opaque when they're in the background, which is the opposite of what we usually want.

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