Threads sometimes don't show the latest edit revision of your messages

### Steps to reproduce

I'm not sure what are the exact steps to reproduce, this happens spontaneously, but the condition is a large public room.
For example, I might see one revision in the Thread's summary, then another in the Thread. Clearing cache doesn't fix it.

### Outcome

#### What did you expect?

I see the latest edit revision of my messages in a Thread

#### What happened instead?

I see old revisions.
I can see the latest revisions of other messages, and other people see the latest revision of my message, i.e. this bug happens only for the author.

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### Will you send logs?

No

### Are you willing to provide a PR?

No