Increase touch area of some controls

### Your use case

#### What would you like to do?

Have some controls with an increased touch area

#### Why would you like to do it?

There's a lot of PR that do that in specific areas, and we end up with overly specific CSS

- https://github.com/matrix-org/matrix-react-sdk/pull/6084
- https://github.com/matrix-org/matrix-react-sdk/pull/10145
- https://github.com/matrix-org/matrix-react-sdk/pull/9202

#### How would you like to achieve it?

This is probably a concern for @vector-im/compound

### Have you considered any alternatives?

_No response_

### Additional context

_No response_