Clicking on the parent to a reply of a thread (but not a reply in thread) renders wrong (both) replies in the thread sidebar

### Steps to reproduce

Send a message A
Reply to the message A with reply B
Reply to the reply B with reply C

Have someone else Reply in Thread to the original message A

Now there will be two messages with 'reply' preview chains

Now when I click the reply preview chain the beginning, it shows the Thread replies, not the regular replies.

For some reason, after I click on the Thread replies, then back to the regular replies, the sidebar renders correctly.

Please excuse the frustrated language. With some help, threads can become Treasure <3

https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/32407/221689418-294a2d6e-5313-4744-8ebe-dc47fc8a62f9.mov

### Outcome

#### What did you expect?

Good question! My expectation was seeing the content in the reply preview when i click on it

#### What happened instead?

It showed replies from the Thread replies

### Operating system

macOS

### Browser information

Firefox 111.0

### URL for webapp

https://chat.woodbine.nyc

### Application version

Element version: 1.11.23 Olm version: 3.2.12

### Homeserver

matrixdotorg/synapse:latest (1.77.0)

### Will you send logs?

Yes