Calling someone at the same time they call you results in neither client being able to accept either call request.

### Steps to reproduce

1. Call a friend at the same time they call you
2. Observe the "connecting..." dialogue
3. The call never starts unless you hang up and recall.

### Outcome

#### What did you expect?
It to either show the incoming call (could use the existing dialogue for when you're called from another individual while in a call) or automatically answer (since I sent a call request at the same time, to the exact same person)
#### What happened instead?
The call waits indefinitely. I've had situations happen where we both hit call at the same time, hit hang up, hit call at the same time, etc.

### Operating system

Windows

### Application version

Element version: 1.9.7 Olm version: 3.2.8

### How did you install the app?

https://community.chocolatey.org/packages/element-desktop

### Homeserver

yiff.social

### Will you send logs?

No