when sending an invite to chat or room, and leaving the chat before the user accepted, the invite remains.

### Steps to reproduce

If a user were to send another user an invitation to a room or a private chat, on all platforms and OS’s , and before the other user has joined the chat, the user either leaves the chat or the room or deletes the chat or the room,

the invitation will still be active when the other user tries to accept it, he will get the error message -
”error - can’t join remote room because no servers that are in the room have been provided”

the invitation will remain active until the other user rejects the invitation.

### Outcome

The expected behavior for this is for the invitation to be deleted if the room or chat is not active anymore .

### Your phone model

iPhone 14

### Operating system version

iOS 17.1

### Application version

_No response_

### Homeserver

_No response_

### Will you send logs?

No

The payload names no source files, tests, or entry points. Start by reproducing the invite-and-leave flow on iOS and tracing how pending room and private-chat invitations are retained; done means an invitation is no longer active after its room or chat is left or deleted, including the reported failed-join path.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.