[Bug]: titleBarOverlay and ready-to-show conflict

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### Electron Version

28.2.0

### What operating system are you using?

Windows

### Operating System Version

Windows 11 23H2

### What arch are you using?

x64

### Last Known Working Electron version

_No response_

### Expected Behavior

When creating a `BrowserWindow`, set `show: false` in the options and listen for the `ready-to-show` event of the window. When the event is triggered, the window will be displayed. Generally speaking, this will run normally. But when `titleBarStyle:' hidden` and ` titleBarOverlay: true` are set in the options, window will not send a `ready-to-show` event unless `show` in the options is set to `true`.

### Actual Behavior

My code is as follows:
```typescript
import { app, BrowserWindow, Menu } from 'electron'
import { join } from 'path'

/** 主窗口 */
let mainWindow: BrowserWindow | null = null

/** 创建主窗口 */
function createWindow() {
mainWindow = new BrowserWindow({
width: 900,
height: 670,
show: false,
backgroundColor: 'rgb(32, 32, 32)',
titleBarStyle: 'hidden',
titleBarOverlay: {
color: 'rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)',
symbolColor: 'rgb(255, 255, 255)',
height: 32
},
webPreferences: {
preload: join(__dirname, '../preload/index.js')
}
})

mainWindow.on('closed', () => {
mainWindow = null
})

mainWindow.on('ready-to-show', () => {
console.log('ready')
mainWindow?.show()
})

mainWindow.webContents.loadURL('https://electronjs.org')
}

/**
* 初始化
*/
function initialize(): void {
app.whenReady().then(() => {
createWindow()
})
}

// 取消默认菜单栏
Menu.setApplicationMenu(null)

// 初始化程序
initialize()

```

The console will not print `ready`, and the window will not be displayed, but when I set show to true, the window will be displayed normally, and after it is displayed, it will print `ready`. This means that the window will be displayed before `ready-to-show`, but this is not what I need. I want the window to be displayed after `ready-to-show`.

### Testcase Gist URL

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### Additional Information

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