[BUG]: insane cannot set with to false

### Report hasn't been filed before.

- [x] I have verified that the bug I'm about to report hasn't been filed before.

### What version of `drizzle-orm` are you using?

^0.39.2

### What version of `drizzle-kit` are you using?

^0.30.1

### Other packages

_No response_

### Describe the Bug


this is crazy and unexpected, we should be able to set to false even if TS doesn't play nice with it, I am sure TS can find a way to work...

it only accepts true, or nothing

```
TS2322: Type false is not assignable to type
true | DBQueryConfig<"many", false, ExtractTablesWithRelations<{ UpdateVersionsTable: PgTableWithColumns<{ name: "update_versions"; schema: undefined; columns: { id: PgColumn<{ name: "id"; tableName: "update_versions"; dataType: "string"; columnType: "PgUUID"; ... 10 more ...; generated: undefined; }, {}, {}>; ... 6...
```