[BUG]: Relation Query type merges when using the same "with" key

### What version of `drizzle-orm` are you using?

0.30.10

### What version of `drizzle-kit` are you using?

0.21.13

### Describe the Bug

schema:
```
author: text('id') // a reference to the author id
````
relation:
```
author: one(author, {... // notice the same key as the schema "author"
````
query:
```
with: {
author: true // The "author" should be the data from the author table, and not the "id" reference
}
````
This results is type: `author: (string & {what ever type the relation query is})`

### Expected behavior

When using `with: sameKeyAsSchema`, the types shouldn't merge. It should use the types from the `with` relation.

### Environment & setup

_No response_

Reproduce the relation query from the issue with drizzle-orm 0.30.10, using a schema key and relation with the same name. Trace the generated TypeScript result type for the `with` relation; done when the relation value no longer intersects with the schema reference type.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.