Setting DataGridViewColumn.Visible may throw NullReferenceException

### .NET version

.NET 8.0 (Windows), target OS version 7.0

### Did it work in .NET Framework?

No

### Did it work in any of the earlier releases of .NET Core or .NET 5+?

_No response_

### Issue description

My app has a (subclassed) `DataGridView` that adds a right-click context menu, allowing the user to add and remove columns. So the user can right-click a column and choose "Hide This Column", and that `DataGridViewColumn` will be hidden by setting `Visible=false`.

The bug occurs if I have dragged the rightmost column to be very wide (much wider than the grid itself) so that only that rightmost column can be seen within the grid's scrollable bounds. I then right-click and choose to hide that column. The act of setting the `DataGridViewColumn`'s `Visible` property then unexpectedly throws `NullReferenceException` within Microsoft code:

```
System.NullReferenceException
HResult=0x80004003
Message=Object reference not set to an instance of an object.
Source=System.Windows.Forms
StackTrace:
at System.Windows.Forms.DataGridView.ComputeVisibleColumns()
at System.Windows.Forms.DataGridView.LayoutScrollBars()
at System.Windows.Forms.DataGridView.ComputeLayout()
at System.Windows.Forms.DataGridView.PerformLayoutPrivate(Boolean useRowShortcut, Boolean computeVisibleRows, Boolean invalidInAdjustFillingColumns, Boolean repositionEditingControl)
at System.Windows.Forms.DataGridView.OnColumnStateChanged(DataGridViewColumnStateChangedEventArgs e)
at System.Windows.Forms.DataGridView.OnDataGridViewElementStateChanged(DataGridViewElement element, Int32 index, DataGridViewElementStates elementState)
// this is where I set the Visible property
at Macrame.Ui.Grids.GridContextMenuBuilder.mnuHideCol_Click(Object sender, EventArgs e) in [REDACTED]\Ui\Grids\GridContextMenuBuilder.cs:line 125
```

### Steps to reproduce

See description above.

**Note:** I can reproduce this behaviour every time, in my large app, but I have not been able to reproduce it in a smaller test project. So please ask me if you need any further details about the state and properties at time of failure.