Control.CheckForIllegalCrossThreadCalls to use Interlocked.Increment/Decrement

### Background and motivation

Control.CheckForIllegalCrossThreadCalls is Boolean value that is not thread safe.

### API Proposal

Replace with

```csharp
Control.BeginIllegalCrossThreadCall() => Interlocked.Increment(...);
Control.EndIllegalCrossThreadCall() => Interlocked.Decrement(...);
Control.CheckForIllegalCrossThreadCalls => (Interlocked.Read(...) == 0);

### API Usage

```csharp

Control.BeginIllegalCrossThreadCall() ;
try
{
// Get control handle, etc.
nint handle = control.Handle;

}
finally
{
Control.EndIllegalCrossThreadCall() ;
}

```

### Alternative Designs

Control.CheckForIllegalCrossThreadCalls could be [ ThreadStatic ].

### Risks

_No response_

### Will this feature affect UI controls?

Yes.

Will VS Designer need to support the feature? No
What impact will it have on accessibility? No
Will this feature need to be localized or be localizable? No